Monday, July 21, 2008

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Relationship Alphabet

A
- nnivesaries
Always celebrate!whether it's the 1st or 5oth, each year together is a triumph

B
- est Friends
Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfriend
Take time tio know each other so the relationship will be a deep one

C
- ompliments
Always compliment each other
This will prevent feelings of resentment and thinking that is one being taken for granted

D
- ifferences
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat.
Accept differences, appreciate them.

E
- quality
There should be equality among you. No one should dominate the relationship.
Learn to practice give and take

F - ights
Fight with the aim to resolve the issue. Make something out of it that the relationship will deepen as it goes.

G
- oals
Make sure you have similar goals.
It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are completely different.

H
- onesty
Don't lie or hide things, the problem will only get bigger.

I
- ntegrity
Keep your integrity. Don't sacrifice all for love, learn to keep somethings else for yourself and your partner

J
- oy
Always be happy

K
- now each other
Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing.

L
- ove
It all boils down to your love, chemistry and respect for each other.

M

N
- eeds
Be very attentive and sensitive to each other's needs, physically and emotionally, the way your partner learns to do the same for you.

O
- peness
There should transparency among you. It helps if you can be open abut everything.

P
- riorities
If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things.

Q
-uery
Always ask things but no to the point that it irritates your partner. Its a good thing to be open with your partner

R
- espect
You should respect each other as a person and as someone who you will give your heart to

S
- orry
Say sorry when you're wrong

T
- alk
Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it and have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life.

U
- nderstand
Always try to understand each other no matter how hard the situation may be.


V
- alues
Don't forget your values

W
- illingness
Both of you should be willing to do things for each other. Never do things for each other half heartedly

X



Y
- es
Always be positive for your partner.

Z